Day 2 was much less fanfare. I didn't stress about it quite so much during the day and when the baby was asleep and it was time I cracked a few jokes and ended up getting into the swing of things.
Sex is a funny thing depending on your relationship status. Before you leave a nasty message I only speak from experience and what I have read and heard from friends. When you're single or just starting a relationship you obsess about sex and the next time you can be with that special someone. Once you've been in a relationship for a while, maybe even thrown kids into the mix, sex isn't nearly as important as quality conversation or a good laugh. Poor sex, which is pretty vital for a relationship, becomes second fiddle and if you don't use it, you lose it. The less sex you have the less sex you want and down the wormhole you go to unintentional abstinence, where my husband and I were headed.
So it's only day two but already I'm settling into the cycle of inviting sex back into my relationship on a more regular basis. Sex should be like pretty jewelry or fine china, use it everyday and enjoy it, you can't take it to the grave.
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